For so long a woman's mind has remained a mystery to many and this has made men vulnerable in multiple occasions when they were clueless about a woman's moods. It is often said that when she says NO she means YES , while this could apply for different scenarios it requires a man with a good understanding of females to decipher.
One of the things that men have gone short of is figuring out why she is with holding the main price or for how long she will with hold it. Thing is , women know that right there holds the key to many things and they will use it on you for as mush as they can milk it.
It is therefore impoartant to understand some of the factors that may make her deny you entry. It is better to learn than getting to the point where she’s closing her legs while you’re begging for it.
She’s asserting herself
If there’s one area of a relationship women think they have control over, it’s sex.A woman will use sex to get whatever she wants from a relationship. She may thefeorfor withhold it as an attempt to assert her power over you and the relationship.
She may just be doing it to show you who’s boss in bed or she may be compensating for feeling powerless. For instance if both of you are out and you give alittle attention to another girl when you get back home she will face the wall, touch her and she will say something like, "go touch that chic you were talking to in the club". At this point she is looking for reassuarance which helps her assert her postion in your life. You need to make her feel like the queen bee or you arent getting any. To counter this, compliment her acknolwlede how hot she was looking, heck get some marks off the other girl say she wasnt looking all that. Just redeem yourself, make her feel like she is the one.
You Have Been Friendzoned
There is a level you cross with a woman and she stops seeing you as a potential sex partner and considers you a friend. If you go to her house, she lets you sleep over but she wont allow you to get close, consider yourself friendzoned. When you become too available and close to her that mystery and curiosity ends. It is that mystery that attarcts a woman to a man, she wants to find out what kind of a man you are and how you work it in the sack is on that list. So stay away from the friendzone by all means.
You Are The Kiss And Tell Type
Chics loath a man who talks too much, more so about his conquests. If you go bragging to a girl about how you cornered this chic or the other, how smart you played, consider your chances blown. Girls love men who can keep a secret because they want to do things to you and with you and not feel like a whore. If you go bragging to your friends about her and they give her that 'we know what you did last night look" it does lots of damage to her self esteem. So its simple, never ever brag about your past conquests to a girl you are interested in. If you can keep a secret you will be shocked at the things girls do when no one is looking.
She’s manipulating you
Women will also withhold sex is to get something out of you. This happens as a last resort when no other methods of getting what she wants are working.She might do this indirectly or directrly depending on the situation. My lecturer once said a woman once told her man who always came home after midnight. "There is going to be sex going on in this house at 10pm whether you are there or not". Another said, "no sex will happen in this house beyond 12". Those two are classic exaomples of how a woman will get any man to come home early any day.
The easiest way to get around this is to give her what she wants. If that’s not a possibility, you’ll have to appeal to her sense of reason. If that doesn’t work, try giving her something similar to what she wants. If you can’t make that happen, you might have to wait it out and service yourself until she comes to her senses.
It is not always that a woman withholds sex because she is playing games or wants something from you. Sometimes she is genuinely not in the mood. She may have had a bad day or you havent been nice to her lately. She may not in a position to rant about it so instead of telling you what’s wrong, she might just close up shop.
If for the last three days you have been on her case, there is a chance she will close shop on you when you show up again, unless we are talking about a nympho.
Maybe she’s not putting out because she’s just too damn tired.
Perhaps you want to do it more often than she does, and she just can’t keep up. Other life demands might be stressing her out and keeping her busy too, making her too worn out to enjoy sex as often as you’d like.
To get her back into the idea, pamper her with some relaxing treats beforehand. Draw her a bubble bath or give her a massage. If she’s relaxed, she’s more likely to feel sexy. Or, you could be truly unselfish and devote your time entirely to her pleasure for one night, making her more likely to want to return the favor another time. Also, you might consider cutting back a bit on the frequency. Instead of going to her every time you’re aroused, take matters into your own hands every now and again.
This is not rocket science gentlemen, if you are not the one getting it, someone else is getting it. If she’s kicking you out of bed because she’s more interested in having sex with some other guy. If the chic looks quite happy and contented and she hasnt demanded for some for the last three weeks, your duties have been delegated eslewhere.